The other day I was getting Caroline dressed for school and she begged me to let her wear her blue flip-flops. I agreed that she could, as long as we packed a pair of tennis shoes in her school bag. Then I brushed her hair into a ponytail and put a hot pink bow in it.
She felt me slip the bow in and said, “I DO NOT want that bow in my hair.”
“Why? It looks so cute!”
“I don’t like it.”
“Well, I’m letting you wear your flip-flops so you need to wear the bow for me.”
“Okay, I’ll wear it, but as soon as I get to school I’m going to put it in my bag and forget this bow ever happened.”
I laughed and realized that statement sums up how I feel about everything I wore from 1985 to 1993. If only there wasn’t so much photographic evidence of all the sins I committed in the name of fashion trends.
But that’s why they’re called “trends”. Just keep in mind that not all trends are meant for everyone.
I wish someone would have told me that back in the 80′s before I wore those lace fingerless gloves and blue eyeliner.
Anyway, according to all my minutes of research, here are ten trends for Spring and Summer. If you don’t like them, don’t shoot the fashion messenger.
TRENDS FOR SPRING AND SUMMER
1. Slouchy pants
Is it just me or does this make you think of the line in “Nacho Libre” when he says that sometimes a man likes to wear stretchy pants when he’s alone in his room? Yeah, just me. After twelve years of marriage to P, I have inherited his tendency to think of life as a series of movie quotes.
This is actually a decent trend because it involves one of my favorite fashion elements, which is comfort. These are essentially pants that fit loose through the hips and can either be full-length or capris. The styles can range from a pair of boyfriend-type jeans like Katie Holmes has been sporting to a loose pair of cargos.
The key is to pair these pants with something more fitted on top. You want the pants to be slouchy, not you.
2. Hot pink
I’ll just be up front and tell you that I also saw mention of “neon” pink, but I’m going to pretend like I didn’t because I’ve done neon once in my life and I’m not doing it again. Although I did love my hot pink and neon green Santa Cruz outfit back in 1986.
I am totally on board with hot pink. It’s a great accent color for almost any outfit because it is bright and happy without a tendency to sometimes be overly dramatic like it’s second cousin, red.
Look for a great hot pink scarf or necklace to add to your wardrobe. Or you could always wear a hot pink tee with jeans and some hot pink patent thong sandals. And if you really want to get on the hot pink train (what the heck is a hot pink train?), you could find a hot pink bag to get you through the summer.
3. The statement necklace
I wore a lot of necklaces in the early 80′s that made a statement. The statement was “This is a lot of twist-a-beads wound together and I’m not sure this faux gold shell clip is going to fasten.” Thankfully, what we’re looking for here is a different kind of statement.
There are so many different types of necklaces that fit this category and you can find them in any price range. I’m a big fan of turquoise pretty much all year round, but I adore it during the spring and summer months.
4. Black and white prints
The good news is, if you’re like me, you already have an assortment of at least ten different black shirts in your closet. Pair those shirts with something white and you’re all set. That’s a little fashion tip I like to call “making do in the midst of a recession”.
However, if you must have something new, there are plenty of cute black and white options to choose from. The great thing is that it’s so versatile and you can accessorize with any color you want.
5. The trench
It’s not just for Inspector Gadget anymore.
According to Tim Gunn, the trench should be a closet staple. I used to be conflicted about this because I didn’t understand why anyone would want a boring tan trench coat in their closet unless they had a side job as a flasher. However, they now come in so many cute styles and colors that I get it. I have embraced the trench.
In fact, I would pledge my undying love to this one, except technically it’s not really a trench.
6. The scarf
You know I love you, but we have beat the scarf thing to death at this point. It’s not that I don’t adore them, but I am sick of talking about them.
For more on scarves, here’s a video on how to wear them and here are a few scarf options.
7. Embellished sandals
There was a time about twenty years ago when I vowed I would never wear sandals again. I have deep insecurities regarding my feet and figured why would I ever wear sandals when I have Keds in every color? Obviously, I had to rethink that whole Keds thing a few years later and, after a lot of therapy, I’ve learned that my feet are okay just the way they are.
All that being said, embellished sandals are a fun way to make an outfit stand out. I particularly like these and these.
8. Ruffles
I love the look of a ruffled shirt with a pair of jeans. Maybe it has something to do with the contrast between the feminine ruffles and the denim or maybe I’m just trying to write something that sounds intelligent and thoughtful.
Whatever the case may be, there are some really cute ruffled shirts and I love this ruffle trim jacket and how cute is this trench with a ruffle hem?
9. Cool colors like turquoise
Oh my word, why didn’t I just post six trends for Spring? This is wearing me out and I need to finish so I can watch “30 Rock” in peace.
Look for accessories and clothing in beautiful blues and greens. It’s the next best thing to being in the pool.
10. Neutrals (beiges, khakis, etc.)
I don’t really know how I feel about neutrals. I’m like Switzerland when it comes to neutrals, which is to say that I’m neutral. Also, the word “neutral” looks really weird when you type it that many times in a row.
This is like that old saying “Beige makes the world go ’round”, except no one has probably ever said that until now because I just made it up. The point is that to balance your hot pinks and cool blues, you must occasionally have some neutral influences.
Think about adding a jacket like this one or some bone-colored wedge sandals to your wardrobe. Or maybe just a nice pair of khaki bermuda shorts that you can wear with anything.
I can’t believe we’re done.
And it only took me the better part of ALL DAY LONG. This whole research thing is exhausting, which is the main reason I prefer to just state my opinion on a subject as opposed to substantiating any facts.
Anyway, hopefully this will help you hit the stores feeling just like a boy scout, and, by that, I mean ALWAYS PREPARED.
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Am I too late for the scarf trend? I really like them, but I haven’t bought one yet. Mostly because every time I find one I like…it’s just way too much money. I find myself saying, “I’m not spending that much on a scarf”. I thought I might try Old Navy, but I don’t want to get one if the trend is almost over.
I dread the day my daughter won’t wear bows anymore! Why can’t they just let us dress them and fix their hair forever?!!!
Love the Tar-jay trench! Our local store has more print options than the online store. So fun.
I appreciate the all day long research you do for fashion Friday. I am so impressed with your willingness to add all those links in your writing. Ugh, i just hate doing that on my own blog, but you are great with the links.
Can you do another bathing suit fashion Friday? Tis the season to show more skin! Thanks
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, I am forever in your debt because of that scarf video! : )
Thanks so much. I am going to use these at a retreat. We are doing all kinds of girl stuff. You are quickly becoming my Yoda of fashion.
Thanks for all the time you put into Fashion Friday. 3 ladies in my small group bible study showed up with scarves. It’s big I tell ya!
I also purchased a shaper for the ole muffin top and it helps quite a bit actually. Thanks again for the info.
Blessings & Happy Spring!
hot pink?! oh man, why do us red heads always get the shaft? Last year it was that yellow, and there was that orange phase, and now hot pink?! At least the slouchy pant is a good thing. Please tel me this means the skinny pant is gone?
ahh the fingerless gloves….why did i feel the need to pair them with no less than a hundred rubber bracelets in NEON?…I will never understand.
Thanks for the tips.
I just cannot get behind the baggy pants – although you make a good point to wear them with a fitted top. I think they look sloppy, though, and Katie is A-dorable, but they do nothing for her. Maybe if they weren’t so faded. It looks like she was cleaning the barn, decided to go out, threw on a skimpy top and high heeled sandals, and forgot to change her pants. So she rolled them up as an after thought, trying to avoid a fashion disaster. LOL!!!
Now that Turquoise and Pearl Stone Necklace is right up my alley. I’m thinking of ordering that – such a good price!
OK, so I thank you…..but my checking account doesn’t. I just spent $75 at The Gap online…..I love those loose fitting cargo pants and just had to grab all three colors.
*sigh*
I will admit that I didn’t read the rest of your post for fear that my mortgage wouldn’t be able to be paid next week.
Happy fashion weekend!
*~Michelle~*
about the trench… I do own a couple of them, one normal london fog trench, and a cute blue one from old navy. my problem with them is this… if their “function” is to protect you from rain, why on earth do they not have a hood?!?! so while I think the trench is cute, I am so angry that they do not have a hood that I refuse to wear them.
regarding the ruffled top, walmart has a very cute ruffled cardigan right now.
jennifer (wifeofbobby on twitter)
oh – I’m a big fan of the trench too! They have a really cute blue one over at Old Navy now too!
For the best scarves (I’m not biased, really) go to
http://www.alijboutique.com/
And check back again after this weekend, cuz AliJ just got herself some new inventory…hello Spring and Summer!
Lovin’ the embellished sandals. I hope it spills over to Reef Flip Flops.
I have a confession- I wore blue MASCARA. It really brought out my eyes. But not in a good way.
Check out the sandals in this link….LOVE THEM!
http://www.target.com/Mossimo-Panya-Ruffle-Wedge-Sandals/dp/B001GIHO3Q/179-6999203-4559217?ie=UTF8&node=3429501&frombrowse=1&pricerange=&index=tgt-mf-mv&field-browse=3429501&rank=pmrank&rh=tgt%5F3%3AMossimo&page=2
I just have to say that your Caroline cracks me up. Hold on for a fun ride!
She sounds like MY Caroline who is incredibly, frustratingly independent when it comes to clothes because she won’t buy anything!! Just a quick example . . . last Sunday as we were getting ready to head to church, my Caroline came downstairs in a 3/4 sleeve white sweater. It looked a little short, but it was o.k. I said, “Oh, did you get a new sweater?” She laughed and said, “No, I’ve had this since second grade.” Talk about giving your mama a fashion heart attack! I swallowed any amount of pride I had and just said, “Well, it looks nice” but I cringed all day about it.
Oops, I forgot to mention that my daughter is 15!!!!! ARGH!
Girl, I was born with a bow in my hair! I was the biggest tom-boy in the world but mom made me wear those silly bows! I love your fashion finds today!
I posted about some great ways to pamper yourself for spring! Along with getting that first pedi for your darling new sandals, of course!
Thanks for entertaining me!
Tiffany
All these trends sound GREAT to me! Oddly thought, I’m not big on black & white together. I just feel like a waitress – not bad if I’m getting tips, but I’m not.
Going to watch the scarf video.
Thanks for keeping us up-to-date with our wardrobes.
-FringeGirl
“This whole research thing is exhausting, which is the main reason I prefer to just state my opinion on a subject as opposed to substantiating any facts.”
Love it! You sound like my students. Speaking of the little darlings, would you please do a post on how burnt orange is a lovely color for spring athletic wear, but not for your skin?
I love the slouchy pants!! Although, when I looked at the model who was wearing them, I literally heard my mother’s voice in my head saying, “That girl’s pants are too big. Her figure gets lost in them.” The moral of the story is that I won’t be wearing my slouchy pants around my mother!!
Another *spring 2009* trend that I am all about is the water-color-looking-prints. There are some adorable tops and dresses!
Hi Big Mama,
Love the Fashion Friday posts! I need all the help I can get lately. I am 13 weeks into my 3rd pregnancy…. so, I look more pregnant than I actually am. I am tired of all my maternity clothes from #1 and #2. Where do you recommend shopping for maternity clothes – to look fashionable and not break the bank???
Thanks! Kendra
Loved your scarf video! Also, Brandi and The Boys had given the great tip on the $5 scarves from Walmart— I was able to find a few of those on clearance for 3 bucks. But they now have spring/summer ones out and they are 5 bucks too! Very cute linen ones—some with embellishment. ANd the clearance rack at Target— love getting tees for 5 and 6 dollars just because the ‘new’ colors are in!
You’re famous Mel! Pioneer Woman hearts you!
i would love to hear your opinion on the “maxi dress.” will it stick around long enough to make it worth the cost? what should we look for when picking one?
Oh, you brought back so many memories. The twist a bead made me laugh very loud & my hubs thinks I’m nuts.
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My family communicates in movie lines, there’s nothing wrong with that.
The hot pink train…sounds like a very gay locomotive, or conga line of dragqueens.
Why does the trench thats not really a trench have to be $200???? My heart sank when i saw that price. Shoot. I’m sad now.
Ahhhh spring fashion. Let’s just skip straight to summer where we can wear the sleeveless dresses that are the only thing available and not have to worry about will I need a sweater or not?
I love hot pink on people who can wear it, but on a redhead…not so much. That just boils down to hot pink and orange. Blecch! Fortunately, I have a blondie on whom it looks great. LOVE the black and white thing though! THAT I can do! Thanks for all the hard won research!
Oh the day they don’t want to wear the bow anymore… so sad! (there is hope in the future… my almost 10 year old wants to wear them again! Yeah!)
Laughing about the twisty beads… oh I remember those being the rage! So funny!
You inspire me, Big Mama.
I want to dress just like you. I want to be you.
Oookay, Got a little creepy there. But for reals. You rock.
Every decade or so, the trends actually match what I have in my closet and love to wear. This is my year!!!! I was just in The Gap and gasped at all the Sandy clothes in there. Bought some too!
Sqealing for hot pink, embellished sandals, neutrals, cool colors and ruffled tops…
This year, I shall be the fashion diva I always desired to be. On the cutting edge.
Blessings,
Sandy
I’ve just following your Fashion Fridays after I announced I was going to start doing a Friday Frugal Fashionista post and someone told me about your series. I’m doing designer outfits for under $15 (thrift of course). I’ll have fun linking to some of your things to make sure that I am sharing the latest and greatest (well, maybe a year later.
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I’ll be at She Speaks sporting all these $10 outfits.
Oops – nice edit…I’ve just started following your Fashion Fridays after…
IT’s early,and I haven’t had my coffee.
Big Mama,
I know it’s like 9am Saturday morning, but I’m awake and sitting here at my Mac with my coffee and there isn’t a post from Big Mama to read. How am I supposed to start my day? LOL!
Love the trends and the scarf tying vimeo. Makes me want to get more scarves for spring so I think I will
I am so fashion … carefree … that I cannot begin to figure out how to apply this information in my life. Someone recently did make me a scarf and showed me how to put it on so I might just be able to rock that trend in a timely fashion.
But you have totally inspired me!I have now decided to celebrate the fashion dysfunction in our family and am now going to document it regularly on my blog.
I love this feature of yours but you’re so inspirational that I think I’m gonna have to pick up a 2nd job to support all my extra purchases. Thats why I just listed about a hundy’s worth of crap on Craigslist that I hope somebody wants! At first I thought I’d use the $ for an iPhone but I think I’ll use it to buy me some new clothes instead. I’m still waiting on my blouse from Nord’s that I ordered after last week’s visit to your Fashion Friday
Nordy and UPS say it is supposed to come Tuesday. We’ll see.
I keep wondering when one fashion that drives me crazy will be on it’s way out…
I hope I don’t offend anyone by saying this, but I just don’t get the low waisted pants thing (what is that, french cut?) I don’t know, all I know is it makes a nice round bottom look cut in half, with a roll on top, there are a few girls that can pull it off, gives so many women “man but”. Anyway, I see it all day long when I’m out and about, and it just flatters so few, I always wonder if “she” knows how much better “she” would look with pants that flattered “her” figure, instead of working against it. I just keep wondering how long it’s going to last…
Please don’t hate me, it’s just my humble opinion! lol
I realize perhaps I am also just gettin old LOL
Thanks for your fashion tips, it keeps me thinking ‘current’ lol.
Your daughter cracks me up! What a cutie!
I have 4 children. Only one can wear neon colors. She’s dark and deliciously swarthy, so the glow makes her look tan and healthy and wonderful. If any of the rest of us try the same color, we look like very ill clowns.
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