Diary

  • Fashion Friday: Edition it finally feels (a little) like fall

    The weather finally cooled off here just a little bit. I was able to wear boots and everything. Of course it’s going to be 90 degrees on Saturday but I’m choosing to not focus on that right now.

    Maybe one day we’ll even get to wear sweaters.

    Also, in non-fashion news, I was a guest on my friend Lincee Ray’s podcast this week and had the best time. She makes me laugh and loves all things pop culture as much as I do so it was basically just like having a normal conversation. You can find it here if you’re interested in listening.

    Now here are some cute things I found this week:

    1. free people summer dreams hooded pullover

    I love the color of this and I am always on board for any sort of hooded pullover. This is perfect for Saturday morning soccer games and running to the grocery store and just wearing around. It’s 40% off and now $76.80.

    2. life changer moto jacket

    I keep looking at leather jackets and feel like it may be time to add a good black one to my closet. This one is a great price at $98 and also comes in other colors.

    3. jillian top

    I love a good red and black plaid. I think this would look great with black leggings and boots.

    4. old navy extra long sweater

    This long sweater is perfect to throw on over a t-shirt or a tank with jeans. It also comes in black and light gray.

    5. gap velvet skinny jeans

    Velvet is such a big trend for fall and winter and I love these velvet jeans from Gap. This light pink is my favorite but they also come in gray, ivory and black.

    6. nordic nights button-down

    I saw this in an email from Free People the other day and it called to me. Look how cute that lacing is up the side. It also comes in a rose color. I think both are so cute.

    7. autumnal tunic

    I will never not one time not love a tunic and this one speaks to me.

    8. ruffled cuff button-down

    This is on sale for $49.95 plus an extra 25% off sale and it has great reviews. It would be great with jeans but could also be dressed up with a skirt or pants for the office.

    9. j.crew merino v-neck sweater with drawstring sleeves

    A v-neck is pretty much universally flattering and I love these sleeves. This comes in several colors and is 30% off with code DAY03.

    10. sam edelman camellia tall boot

    I cannot quit looking at these boots. I love the suede, I love the heel, I love the whole thing. They also come in slate and black, but I really love this camel color.

    That’s all for today.

    Have a good Friday.

  • Fashion Friday: Edition with a dream and my cardigan

    So I’m a little tired. Which feels like the understatement of the year. I got home from L.A. on Thursday afternoon and was driving soccer carpool by Thursday night and now I’m sitting here semi-conscious on my couch. I was in L.A. to be on the Hallmark Channel’s Home and Family morning show.

    It was really fun and I even rented a car and drove on the L.A. freeway like an actual adult. And it took me an hour to drive ten miles so now I get what everyone means when they talk about the traffic there. Anyway, I’ll write more about it next week but we better get to the fashion or I’m going to fall asleep.

    Here are some cute things I found:

    1. kira long kimono jacket

    This is on sale for $69.95 at Anthropologie. I love the colors and it would look so great over just a simple pair of black jeans and a black t-shirt or tank.

    2. matilda button-down

    This comes in several color options and Anthropologie is currently offering 20% off all tops. I happen to think this red with white polka dots is precious and I love the buttons and the tunic-length. Plus it has great reviews.

    3. glistened knit wide leg pants

    I can attest that these pants are so much cuter in person than they are on the model. They are really soft and comfortable, but would be perfect for a holiday party with a simple black velvet top. They come in gold or silver.

    4. free people meadow lark blouse

    Am I powerless to resist a good Free People tunic top? YES. This one is flowy, but has the best collar and looks great with black leggings.

    5. bp v-neck long sleeve sweater

    This is just $39 and comes in gray also. I just like a good basic black sweater for the fall and winter and a v-neck is always flattering and feminine.

    6. morning suede moto jacket

    This is pricey, but how gorgeous is this jacket? The color is perfect and it would make even jeans and a white t-shirt look amazing. It might be a good Christmas wish item.

    7. 7 for all mankind skinny jeans

    I was at a book signing in Dallas this week and someone asked where I got my jeans and I remembered that I haven’t shared this secret in a while. Last Call is a great place to find expensive designer jeans at lower prices. For example, these are $89.60 but are normally $189.

    8. runaround french terry tunic

    I know I have proclaimed my love for these runaround tunics, but they continue to be a favorite They are $33.50 but my readers can get an extra 20% off with the code RUNAROUND20 until Monday. Plus, all sweaters at Ikat Elephant are also 20% off right now.

    9. altar’d state berry dress

    I wore this with skinny jeans (It is in no universe a dress on me) to my San Antonio book signing and several people asked where I got it. Here it is. I’m wearing a small and it also comes in a cream color.

    10. cashion cable knit sweater

    This is the perfect soft cable knit sweater for winter. I plan to wear it on a regular basis. The length is great and the arms are extra long which I like because I can pull the sleeves down over my hands or cuff them.

    That’s it for today.

    Have a great Friday.

  • In case I forget to tell you later, I’m having a good time

    Hi.

    How are you?

    I am in the midst of what may go down as the busiest two week period of my life to date. But don’t worry, I totally got to relax on Monday because we spent it shopping for shoes for Caroline for Homecoming this weekend. Have you ever prayed in the shoe department at Nordstrom? Because I did yesterday as we looked for something that was “comfortable” but “not too flat” and “not too strappy” and “doesn’t have a weird heel” and “isn’t a bootie but isn’t a dress shoe either”. Jesus, be near.

    The good news is even though I’m a little tired, I’m having the best time hearing from so many of you who have already read Church of the Small Things. It means so much to me that it’s made you laugh and made you cry and encouraged you in any way. Sometimes by the time a book comes out, I can start to wonder why on earth I ever even put myself through all of it so I’m grateful for all the love and support.

    I started my little Texas book tour last week at Barnes & Noble in San Antonio. It was a good time and P even showed up and signed a couple of copies of Antelope in the Living Room since it’s about him. (The copies he signed are at the San Pedro B&N across from North Star Mall if you want one.)

    After the signing I went to grab a glass of wine with Mimi, Bops, my sister, Gulley, and my friend Debbi (who, by the way, is the genius behind all the funny Church of the Small Things promos on my Instagram). It was a good way to end a fun night.

    Then I headed out early Friday morning to Round Top for a book signing at Royer’s Pie Haven. Some of my publishing friends joined me and it was so fun to show them Round Top and to watch them experience the wonder that is Royer’s and the Junky Gypsy store.

    Later that afternoon, I made the drive to College Station and got to Honey and Big’s house just in time for some homemade soup and cornbread which was like heaven in a bowl. My dear friend, Tiff, came by and we got to visit and then Gulley finally got into town about 10:00 p.m. and we all stayed up way too late laughing and talking.

    We slept in the next morning and then it was time to get ready for my book signing at the MSC on the Texas A&M campus. I’m not going to lie, it was maybe my favorite book-related thing I’ve ever done. It felt surreal to sit there in the MSC, where I spent so much time during my college years eating lunch with friends in lieu of going to class, and think about how my nineteen-year-old self couldn’t have ever imagined this scenario in a million years.

    Maybe that’s why I look slightly overenthusiastic in that picture. I apologize to whoever I was talking to because I also feel certain my voice was two octaves higher than normal.

    I met so many Aggies and saw old friends and even made some new Alabama friends, one of whom was wearing a large button with Nick Saban’s face on it. And I loved meeting so many darling current students who never failed to greet me with the line, “My mom is a big fan and told me I needed to stop by…” So well done, mamas, your kids took time out of their game day festivities to come meet someone old enough to be their mother and buy a book. I wanted to take them all home and feed them soup and cornbread.

    When the signing was over, Gulley, Carolyn (my book editor) and I walked over to a tailgate to meet up with my friend Lincee and some of her friends. Carolyn had never had a real Texas football and tailgate experience and I felt like it was my duty to make sure we remedied that. And so after a chicken fajita and cold beer, we made our way to Kyle Field for the main event of the evening. Honestly, I didn’t know what to expect but had polled all the Aggies who showed up at the book signing and the general consensus seemed to be that we all felt optimistic. Or in the words of Patty Simcox from Grease, “I hope we don’t make too poor a showing”.

    And as it turns out, the Aggies held our own. I’m not one to talk about a moral victory, but I saw a lot of grit and heart from our team and that gives me hope for the future. I would watch this team purely to watch Cullen Gillaspia, our 12th man, every single game. In other words, my heart can’t help itself. I love Aggie football. I love Kyle Field. I love all the gut-wrenching agony and glory of it all. I’m a sucker.

    I woke up Sunday morning early enough to drive home to watch my other favorite sporting event, Caroline’s soccer game.

    It was impressive because not only did she score a goal, she used her time on the field to promote my book.

    And so that’s what has been happening around here along with shopping for shoes for Homecoming and trying to get laundry done before I leave town again on Tuesday morning which is today if you’re doing the math but I’m writing this on Monday night and so whatever.

    After all that recapping, here’s a quick list of things you may want to know about:

    1. Dallas Book Signing tonight at 7:00 at Lincoln Park Barnes & Noble

    2. Church of the Small Things Online Bible Study with Faith Gateway

    This is the perfect way to do the Bible study, especially because it’s online and no one will judge you if you don’t finish your homework. Not that I’ve ever not finished Bible study homework, I just hear that happens sometimes.

    3. Signed, special edition copies of Church of Small Things with bonus content

    These are just $16 right now and I hadn’t seen one in person until last week. There’s a whole bonus content section in the back that I wrote exclusively for Barnes & Noble readers that you can only get from Barnes & Noble, plus it’s a signed edition so perfect for gift-giving. You can find them here or in your local B&N store.

    And that’s all for today because it’s late and Mabel and I are worn out from all this book excitement.

    Mabel even wrote a haiku:

    Selling books is hard
    Mom’s suitcase is packed again
    I might pee on it

    Have a great day and thanks again for all the support!

  • Fashion Friday: Edition I launched a book this week

    Remember that time this week that I launched a book?

    Yes. I am very tired.

    And I still have miles to go. I’ll be at Royer’s Pie Haven from 11-1 on Friday signing books and then at the MSC bookstore on the Texas A&M campus signing from 2-4 p.m. before the Aggies play Alabama. I’d love to see you if you’re in the area.

    I’m also super excited because I’ve partnered with my friend Mandy at Milk and Honey tees and we have the cutest t-shirts inspired by Church of the Small Things. I think they’re such a great reminder to live out the message of the book, plus I am a sucker to a hot pink t-shirt with a good pair of jeans. You can find them here.

    Now here are some other cute thing I found this week presented without much comment because it is late and I need to go to bed.

    1. denmark striped tunic dress

    This is $99.95 plus 40% off because all sale at Anthro is currently an extra 40% off.

    2. callie ruffled shell

    This is $59.95 plus 40% off. You 2018 summer self will thank you for buying this top in advance.

    3. serafina peasant top

    I adore Hemant and Nanadita clothing and this is no exception. It’s $99.95 plus 40% off.

    4. embroidered high-neck blouse

    I have adored this since I first saw it. It’s on sale for $59.95 plus 40% off.

    5. vintage modern tank

    These tanks have great reviews and straps that are wide enough to wear with a normal bra. They are on sale for $19.95 plus 40% off.

    6. Tie hem sweater

    I love the wide tie on this. It’s on sale for $49.90 and also comes in gray or black.

    7. v-neck sweater

    This comes in other colors but I love the pink.

    8. zella high waist leggings

    These leggings continue to be my favorite. They are so comfortable and don’t fade no many how much I wash and dry.

    9. barefoot dreams hooded cardigan

    We mentioned this on the podcast yesterday. It is so dreamy and a perfect Christmas gift for yourself or someone you really love.

    There is no tenth thing today. Why? Because apparently I forgot and now I need to go to bed.

    It’s also P’s birthday today so Happy Birthday, P!

    Thanks for a great week, y’all.

    Have a good Friday.

  • Welcome to the world, Church of the Small Things

    Before I say anything else today, I have to express how deeply heartbroken I am for Las Vegas and those who were tragically killed and those who are fighting for their lives in the hospital. My prayers go out to them and their loved ones as we all struggle to wrap our minds around this tragedy.

    I hadn’t heard what happened until I arrived at the T.V. studio after I’d dropped Caroline off at school and then I immediately saw the headlines on all the screens in the waiting room. And all I could think is that it feels like there is heartbreak everywhere right now. As a nation, in just the last month, we’ve watched the devastation left by hurricanes, the constant fighting about anything even remotely political, and now this latest tragedy in Las Vegas where so many lives were cut short.

    Honestly, it all feels like too much. Too much hurting, too much fighting, too much sadness and too much tragedy.

    But it also embodies the very heart of what I wanted to share as I wrote Church of the Small Things because what we’ve also seen are neighbors helping neighbors, ordinary people stepping up to make a difference in the lives around them in a million small ways. What’s going on in the world right now can seem so overwhelming and too big for any one person to handle, but each of us can impact our small corner by loving our family, our friends, and asking God to show us what he’d have us do this day right where we are with what he has given us.

    David killed a giant with a slingshot he already owned.
    A widow saved her family with a little bit of olive oil that was already in her house.
    A young boy shared his lunch and it fed 5,000 people.
    Jesus changed the world with twelve men. He didn’t even have an Instagram account.

    That’s the heart of this book. Never underestimate what God can do with a willing heart in the midst of our seemingly small lives and offerings. Let’s love our families and friends, let’s treat each other with kindness, let us embrace this one brief, wild ride we’ve been given on this earth and make it count in a million small ways.

    This is my fourth book and I still can’t wrap my head around this whole process of launching a book out into the world. I cannot thank you enough for all the love and support so many of you have shown as you have pre-ordered and shared the word. I hope you love it.

    And I hope as it gets delivered to your doorstep or downloads on your Kindle or after you pick up a copy at your favorite bookstore that it makes you laugh and cry and think and maybe remember how great movies were back in the days when entire plot points revolved around a mechanical bull riding contest. But most of all, I hope that it makes you realize that God has more for us than we could ever imagine in the church of the small things. We just have to look for him there.

    There are still signed copies available at Barnes & Noble and in most Barnes & Noble stores with exclusive bonus content and a bullet journal in the back. You can order one online here or pick one up in the store.

    And you can find it on Amazon here.

    And you can find all other buying options here.

    Thank you a million times over for supporting me and cheering me on. You’re the reason I get to do this and I am forever grateful.

  • An excerpt from me about Piper and Mabel

    Merry Church of the Small Things Eve!

    Is that a real thing?

    Only if you care.

    And apparently I do because I got home from church yesterday and spent the entire afternoon cleaning my house from top to bottom. This is not normally how I spend my Sunday afternoons. But it’s like I was nesting before my new baby arrives. I can’t explain this phenomenon except that somewhere it’s triggered by the need to control something you can actually control. I can’t make everyone buy my new book but I can dang well make sure my baseboards are clean and all the towels are bleached. The mind is a weird thing.

    Today’s excerpt is by me with a guest appearance by Piper and Mabel. I’ll tell you what I learned from this experience. P and I do not have a future in dog-wrangling. Or maybe Mabel is just camera shy. I don’t know.

    Today is the last day you can order and get all the free stuff for pre-ordering here. (If you have pre-ordered and never got your link with all the stuff, please email me with your order number and let me know!)

    There are still signed copies available for pre-order at Barnes & Noble with exclusive bonus content and a bullet journal in the back. You can order one here.

    And you can find it on Amazon here.

    And you can find the book trailer and all other buying options here.

    Also, if you’re in San Antonio, I’m going to be on Daytime at Nine on Fox this morning and then San Antonio Living on NBC at 10:00.

    Have a great Monday. I’ll just be here probably re-cleaning my house or biting my nails.